Let go of who you think you should be

The Gifts of Imperfection

Brené Brown

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The Gifts of Imperfection

Let go of who you think you should be

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Written byBrené Brown

Brown’s guide to wholehearted living: ten guideposts for letting go of perfectionism and embracing who you really are, flaws included.

  • Published2010
  • GenrePsychology
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  • Summary1 min read

Read it if you…

  • are hard on yourself
  • want to feel braver in everyday moments
  • want to think differently about a problem

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  1. 01Start from worthiness

    Wholehearted living begins with believing you are enough as you are.

  2. 02Let go of perfectionism

    Perfectionism is a shield against shame, not a path to excellence.

  3. 03Practise self-compassion

    Speak to yourself the way you would speak to someone you love.

  4. 04Rest and play matter

    Exhaustion isn’t a status symbol. Make room for rest and play.

  5. 05Daily practices

    Courage, compassion and connection are things you practise, not things you have.

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